by EllenK | Jan 7, 2021 | Uncategorized
What you need to know about confidentiality: when you have it, when you don’t. I’ve been blogging about police and first responders with Psychology Today for a couple of years. My most popular post was about cops and PTSD. On the first day of 2021, I saw a...
by EllenK | Dec 6, 2020 | Uncategorized
Why do we ask cops to stay on the job for decades when many are done in one? 2020 had such a nice sound, so round it rolled right off the tongue. What a metaphor of hope, twenty-twenty vision, the ability to see perfectly without wearing glasses. So much for happy...
by EllenK | Oct 17, 2020 | Uncategorized
In police work, thinking the worst can make the job safer and your life harder. “My mind’s got a mind of its own It takes me out a-walkin’ when I’d rather stay at home Takes me out to parties when I’d rather be alone My mind’s got a mind...
by EllenK | Sep 17, 2020 | Uncategorized
Wisdom from a pioneer cop about connecting to your family during hard times. Dr. Al Benner was a retired police captain, a pioneer in police psychology, co-founder of the West Coast Trauma Retreat for first responders with traumatic stress, and a mentor to many “cop...